| Friday, July 31, 2009, 11:08 PM |
i just felt like typing another blog entry despite just completing one a few moments ago. well, i just managed to change the font size for my blog and i ought to be playing it for a while, shouldn't i? :D
ohhs, and i had a quarrel with my mom yesterday, one-sided, of course. (if i reciprocated her one-sided argument, i'll probably end up going to school with two palm-like tatoos on my face.)
yeah, what's with housework, seriously? and what's with her communication skills?
me: "so are you cooking tomorrow?"
mom: "i cant find the chicken."
me: "so are you cooking tomorrow?"
mom: "i told you i can't find the chicken."
me: "so you cooking tomorrow or not?"
mom: "i can't find the chicken!"
the best is yet to come. see? i asked her the same question thrice and she gave me the same reply thrice. in the end, i gave up trying to talk to her and went to do my washing up and prep for sleep. she stopped me while i was walking to the room and was at the living room.
mom: "你刚才是什么态度?好歹我也是你妈,你刚才是什么态度?我知道你因为我不跟你洗衣,所以你dulan,可是我是你吗hor。你现在只是洗衣而已,你也没有烫衣,你dulan什么?叫你做家务你每次都没做,要不然就是乱做……,……我都跟你讲我找不到那只鸡了,原本是想要给你煮的。还有,你刚才是什么态度?oi,假如明天早上你阿公有买菜,就算是我买了菜,那些菜都要留明天煮。你要我怎么跟你讲我明天有没有煮?明天的事你今天来问我?…………。”
me: 以呆滞的眼神盯着她,满脑子都在向我几时才能走,她何时才会停。
whatever. 在她眼里,我们永远都做得不好,而她做得最好。我扫完地后,在地上的那几根头发是我没扫干净。她扫完地后,在地上的那几根头发是刚掉的。逻辑何在?天理何在?拜托,有双重标准的话就自己扫地,因为在你眼里没人会做得比你好。褶衣也是一样,我们褶的都有“皱纹”,而你褶的之所以会有皱纹全因偶然。真是天才理论阿。
希望他扪心自问,他最后一次贬低我们是几时,而最后一次夸奖我们又是何时?贬低是今天,夸奖,哼,大前年还是十年前?请反省一下为什么我会从喜欢做家务变得很讨厌做家务好不好?这绝非偶然,而我也不是一夜之间变得很讨厌做家务的。
对了,他还提到自己洗衣什么的。其实我宁愿自己洗衣也不要做家务。最起码自己洗衣不需要蒙受他的批评,不需要听他的碎碎念,不需要听她说她扫得多干净而我扫得多肮脏,更不需要怀着半夜惊醒的恐惧入梦……。